Thursday, August 26, 2010

It's a small world after all

What a summer it has been. There should be no complaining about the weather by any of us who don't count on it to produce our living. We have had a most awesome year of weather, from a wonderfully warm winter to an early spring and a nice hot summer. After hearing complaints about last summer, I am sure that this year was favored by many. I think we just have to get out and enjoy whatever comes our way though, really it is up to us to make the best of all that comes our way!

So the summer holidays have come and gone. Back to work and the oldest kid will soon be back to school, the youngest is back in daycare already. I have had so many awesome experiences this year, and this summer held many as well.

My eyes were really opened when we were away this year, as we drove out to the mountains. We went for a run and to see family. It was a nice road trip for us as a family, the kids did really well for a 14 hour drive... straight through. Along our travels I was disturbed to get to the end of the wilderness and found that we had not seen much wildlife at all. As a matter of fact I felt like we had just entered a horror movie, an end of the world type where the earth is dying all around us and we are not yet aware of the tragic end that is about to befall us as a species.

I guess this story starts back a few months ago when an old movie comes on TV, actually there were several, but the one I got caught up in was called "Soylent Green", staring Charlton Heston in 1973. The movie takes place in the year 2022, 12 years from now 49 years from the time the movie was actually released. Neat to find out that it won several awards in the science fiction categories for the time. This is the regular type end of the world movie in where we have killed off the green growing things as well as the animals on the planet and are trying to survive anyway we can. Water is rationed, food is rationed, strawberry jam is $150 for a 6oz. jar, few people have seen anything like lettuce or meat for that matter and soylent is the processed product everyone lives on. What really took me in this movie is where Charlton Heston's' character refers to the problem as "Global Warming". I thought that global warming was a fairly 'new' term, this movie was released in 1973! I found it surprising that 35 years ago we saw this happening to our environment enough to have it put into a movie.

We recently watched the movie "The Book of Eli", wow. Again I found that to be another powerful movie, with a similar theme, the world is desolate, people are power hungry for what food and water is left. In this the hero is travelling on a quest to preserve a book, following a vision he had.

Actually there many more of these movies in the recent years, foreshadowing our killing the earth in one way or the other. If not the earth, then at least ourselves. I'm still surprised that global warming was a term used in a 1973 film to describe the horrible state of the world and how it came to be that way!

Back to our holiday.....

From Manitoba down to Pincher Creek! 14 hours!!! Nice little camp ground, some ant hills on our site so they don't mind moving us over so they can later deal with the ant problem. (environmentally, with hot water apparently) 4 nights there. A fantastic storm on the Saturday night that even the owners of our campground comment that they have never seen something that bad over their years there. Under our tent,when we moved it to dry out our tarp, we found a salamander resting comfortably in a puddle. Little did we know this was a wildlife highlight along our way. We put him back in the creek quickly so he wouldn't dry out.
A day trip to head smashed in buffalo jump, there is a sign telling all who are there to be especially aware of your small children because of the wildlife, which goes unseen. Then later to Waterton national park. We go for a walk where we find out there has been a grizzly with her cubs playing down in a ravine under a bridge and later a black bear 10 feet from a road. We stay away from the road where the black bear was, because we grew up in bear country and we know how fast they are! On our way back to our camp site we see a grizzly bear playing in a field. Stop for a quick picture (yes, we stayed in our car; those babies are bloody fast when they want to be!!)
The next day, Monday, it is time to head out, our next stop is Lake Louise. Absolutely beautiful, the lake is so green from the glacier water it is hard to describe. I have been there a few times over the years but the beauty of the mountains never gets dull for me. We decide to camp here after a small hike around the lake. There is an electrified fence around the camp ground to keep the bears out. There is no sign of wildlife.

Tuesday morning it is time to keep moving and we are off to Jasper. Up past the waterfalls, stop to see the Columbia ice fields. This is incredible to see how fast they seem to be melting. (my awesome boys by the 2000 marker!) And continuing up to Jasper where I know we will definitely run into some elk at least. My mother in law sees a doe elk in the woods, one. Passing by the salt licks, nothing! Here there is usually some mountain goats, but not now. A night in Jasper. There is no sign of wildlife. On our way out of Jasper, high on a mountain side I see two white spots that would be a mountain goat and her kid. That's the end of the wildlife we get to see. From Banff through Lake Louise all the way up to Jasper! Still on our way out of the park as I watch the forests and mountains pass I start to see a dead forest come into view. Maybe it isn't dead? The trees are all grey, there is grass on the ground, but nothing on the trees, there are no leaves on the ground either. The sign we pass says Talbot Lake. I am finding this very eerie, kinda like we are entering the beginning of one of those movies. Where has the wildlife gone? How much more of the forests are gone or going? Is our roadway that much more important than wildlife? We are actually building bridges for the wildlife to go over our roads, and culverts so they can go under our roads. This has its advantages because we don't want to create more road kill, but of course it seems silly for us to consider slowing down to let a deer pass safely. Please don't get me wrong, I do think the bridges and culverts are a great idea so wildlife can safely pass on their journeys, especially because the fences now keep them off the road ways, and they do need to migrate. As a species we seem to think that everything needs to convert to OUR way of thinking. How selfish and small minded we are. Even if God did give us charge over all the animals, He expected us to CARE for them. (Genesis 1:28)

I have had my eyes opened up over the past year, feeling very much like Neo from the movie "The Matrix". I have taken the pill (read some books) and now feel that I see the world in a different light. Not being in this more 'awakened' state I wonder if I would have noticed the lack of wildlife? Now I have the opportunity to do something about it. This year I had already decided to use my car less, get out the bike or walk. Get the kids using their bikes. Recycle more, start composting, pre-cycle even more, eat better, waste less, and the list continues. So it must continue, working on my part of this little world; hopefully bring about a better little part to infect the bigger part, and so on.

It's a small world after all!!

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

music

A quick funny thought

My husband brought out the brochure for the Treeherne Marathon "run for the hills". All morning I have Bruce Dickinson in my head singing 'Run To The Hills'. Huh! Haven't heard that song for a very long time, don't remember any words other than 'run to the hills, run for your life'. I'm not sure if I can run this one in September as we are not yet sure if we will find babysitting, but if I do I think I will have to add this song to my play list, somewhere between Casting Crowns and Newsboys.

Have a great day!

Nicole

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Learning to slow down?

It has been an interesting day with so many different topics of discussions. Work is my social life for the most part. As well it is a school house where I am taught many lessons I am lucky enough to experience through others.

For myself, lessons best learned are those I get to experience myself. Although there are those that it is just as nice to learn through others mistakes. Either way life is all about learning. To stop learning is to stop growing, to stop experiencing, and really there is nothing left after we stop. Each breath is new, and to figure out how to keep that in mind has been difficult lately as I have found myself caught up in the every day life, forgetting that it is everyday LIVING that I'm going for.

Had a great walk home with my youngest yesterday. We had been at the pool and then walked (about a mile) home, but on the way we found so many awesome distractions! First a stop at the fresh fruit stand. We were needing apples, and strawberries, but after a few samples we found plums, beets (along with instructions on what to do with them), and of course cucumbers. What a grand time my three year old and I had deciding what to bring home. Then back to our walk, only to find honeysuckle flowers (or weeds?) along the way. Of course we need to stop and pick a few for some of the girls my son knows. I did not have the heart to tell him that they were not going to survive the night, it was adorable to watch him plan who was going to get which flower. Then when one was lost we had to quickly find some more to replace it. Then there was a park on the way home as well. At this point I'm thinking that we will never get home to make dinner, much less to eat, but I am determined to be LIVING and not get caught up in the everyday life of droning onto the next thing! So we stop to play for 5 min along the way, really is 5 min so bad? There are no other commitments for the evening, so 5 min is really nothing, except for the incredible experience for watching my three year old run around smiling as he gets as much sliding time in before we start back on our way home again.

Once home we get into cleaning vegetables and making dinner. What a great 40 min though! It is all in our frame of mind. I just have to remember to get out of the rushing around mode and into the enjoying the living mode. Something to think about as the week progresses and I feel like I'm being pulled. Pulled back into societies view of what should be, of what success is to 'them', of what success is suppose to look like. Redefining this is hard but I've seen it done and know it is do-able! So here we go.... off on another adventure of not caring what anyone else thinks, and ENJOYING every minute of it!!

Have a great day!

Nicole

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Just some thoughts.....

So I have been reading 'Born to Run' again. I am picking up some interesting details I didn't see last time. I only began reading this past week and I am enjoying it all over again. Some things I would like to share.......

" It reminded me of a proverb attributed to Roger Bannister,....... 'Every morning in Africa a gazelle wakes up,' Bannister said'. 'It knows it must outrun the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every morning in Africa, a lion wakes up. It knows it must run faster than the slowest gazelle, or it will starve. It doesn't matter whether you're a lion or a gazelle- when the sun comes up you'd better be running." pg.13 Just before this the author questions why we never see a wolf icing its knee, and after, he comments as to why we are the only mammal on the planet unable to rely on our legs.

Later on in the book (I'm not there yet this time through) the author Christopher McDougall goes on to find research showing that our bodies have the same characteristics of those animals who run. I find it interesting that God really must have a plan. He has equipped us with every thing we need. Our feet have been designed to do something awesome, carry us along our road, path, journey. He not only made us He made us very good.

"And God saw everything that He had made, and behold, it was very good and He approved it completely. And there was evening and there was morning, a sixth day." Genesis 2:31 (amplified version)

Not once does it say that He mucked up on our feet! Of course I understand that we have been given the intelligence to fix things and to be creative and we should use our brains to build and live. We were made to enjoy our lives as well, to be filled to overflowing with gladness.

"I have told you these things, that My joy and delight may be in you, and that your joy and gladness may be of full measure and complete and overflowing." John 15:11

This is what the running high is all about, I think. And it is not limited to running. I had an experience a couple of weeks ago that left me 'high' for almost two days, it was a great work out with some interesting people. It is the state of mind, or maybe the state of spirit you are in I think that determines this. For those out there in tuned with your body, mind, and spirit.... you get it. Even if you are only working on being in tuned with any of these areas, ...... you get it, or you wouldn't be working on it. There is something more to this running than just the run, isn't it great how beautifully and wonderfully made we are!

I'm not saying that running is for everyone, but the joy and gladness is for everyone in the things we were each designed to do. Each of us were designed to live with a purpose, and when that purpose is found so is the joy 'of full measure and complete and overflowing'.

I hope we all get to find this in our lives, the point where we get it. The point where it all becomes a 'runners high'. I wish you Joy.

Nicole

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Grateful Hearts

I have had some busy days over the past month. With busyness came so many things, but I have had the time to count blessings. I think this is important as I really believe that we have forgotten to do this as a society. Not everyone, but allot of us have.

Last Thursday I experienced a grateful heart. The entire day I could only feel ecstatic for all the wonderful people I have had the opportunity to meet. For those I've know for a while, I am thankful to have them in my life (even if I only get to see them every one or two years).

I am blessed in so many ways, a wonderful husband, two awesome kids, a great city where I can afford to live, schools my children can attend, grand parents for my kids, family I can hang out with (even the in-laws), the ability to work, the ability to play, the ability to feed my kids. It sounds like simple things, yet it has been a week of eye-opening as I run around and realize that we sometimes take these small things for granted. I have the tendency to get up-tight and frustrated with things easily and now I sometimes ask myself WHY? Is this something that really matters? Sometimes it is, and many times it does not, and so many others it can be a learning experience for both my children and myself if I choose to just not loose my temper and recognize the opportunity.

It is hard to have a grateful heart all the time, but I want to live here more. I want to experience life from this perspective more. It has to be a choice though. I was listening to a sermon the other day and she said 'it takes no effort to find the bad, you just have to wait and it will find you. You just have to do nothing for disease to find you. There is a choice involved for finding good. You have to choose health, this needs to be a conscious decision, then there needs to be an effort and an action.' How true when you think about it.

It strikes me as interesting; I find this to be a simple truth, and yet not so simple when you realize this is a choice we make every day. In the foods we eat, it does take longer to make our food rather than buy it already done. The activities we choose, taking our kids here and there (this can also be a great thing) yet we don't make the most of this time, or we don't find the time to do the activity with them. Small choices we make every day, and some of the time it is not a conscious decision it is just a habit of convenience.

This behaviour is learned in our society. We have been taught to consume and buy and to not think much further than our own comfort. It has to be a conscious decision when we stop to re-educate ourselves. I think about the movie "The Matrix". The scene where Neo is sitting in the chair and he needs to make a decision, one he can never go back from. Does he take the pill? or does he continue off into the blissful existence of not knowing? Once we know certain things, there really is no going back. Once we see the truth, it is some thing we can not turn away from.

This is all really heavy this morning so I think I will stop here and digest some breakfast and coffee. I will do so with a grateful heart as I watch my children enjoy the morning, and we watch the sun come out from behind the clouds.

Have a fantastic day.

Nicole

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Wow...... A lesson in being there

It has been an interesting week. I was really sad to find out that a couple of friends who have been married for 15 years have decided to split up and separate.They were married a month after my husband and myself, we actually stole their wedding date, by accident (long story). There are no kids involved, a couple of dogs, a house and two adult lives.

I've decided that I think that I need to be a better friend. That this could happen and I stand by completely oblivious to it all? I am naturally naive, but here I now just feel neglect full. Not that I could have done anything at all but to not even have a clue that two close friends were in trouble? I am disappointed in my by standing behaviour and attitude.

This couple I have admired in many ways. They never minded the other had outside interests. They seemed to encourage each other in their separate interests. This is something I have admired over the years in this couple. This is all new so I probably don't and won't ever have the whole story. I don't need the story.I really just need it to know that I have to make a better effort to be a friend.

One of the running things I have said to have incorporated into my life is 'improve personal relationships', here I have previously failed. So now I will study harder. I will make more of an effort to be out there, caring and just being there when a friend needs me. Maybe even when they don't need me, just because.... that's what friends do!

There is the story of Job in the bible. There is a time in his life when all is lost, with the exception of his faith, and his friends gather around him. Allot of stupid things are said, all trying to make him feel better, but all he really needs is someone there to just be, to just be there. Nothing needs to be said, there is something to be said in not having to say something at all. Anyways, I need to put in the time to just be there. Nothing more, nothing less.

This brings to mind another situation where I was probably a bit neglect full of a dear friend by trying to be kind and not hurtful. All I can do now is pray and let them know that I am here, whenever the need arises, I am here. So that is what I will do, I will let them know I am here. Every month (every week seems stalker like) I will leave a message on their answering machine to let them know I miss them, and that is all. I won't let the situation get the better (bitter) of me. I will put the work into 'improving personal relationships'.

This is a hard lesson to look at, as I have always considered myself a really great person for a friend, but to see how I have taken my friendships for granted has once again led me to another lesson in humility. And a real eye opener to the world around me. This is not an easy thing to do, look at myself this closely inside, but after the shock of seeing those around me in such.....? Not sure what to call it, as things are seeming quite amicable right now with the separating couple.? To be so oblivious to those who have been hurting? Yes, it is time for me to step up the efforts! To go out of my way for those I love and hold dear to me.

So that is the only warning if you happen to be a friend of mine and are reading this, I love you all so dearly, you are such wonderful people, and I plan to make sure you know it!

Have a great week!

Nicole

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Feeling the road


So I had a great run this weekend! The only reason it was great is that I finished and came away with some new lessons learned. I really learn more about myself as I run, some things I would prefer to not know. But then I guess I couldn't do anything about things I don't like if I don't first admit to needing a change?

I had been training in my vibram five fingers, then on race day I gave them up for my husband to wear, and I went out in my old water shoes. This was not a smart thing to do. I didn't realize how differently you feel the road in the VFF's, as it is much closer to barefoot than a water shoe. I think this surprised me as the water shoe has what seems to be a thinner softer sole, where as the VFF's have a harder sole but one that fits much closer to the form of your foot. Moving from a water shoe to the VFF's is an easier transition than back tracking from the VFF's to the water shoe. Once one gets used to feeling the road under your feet, going back I seemed to loose my stride, the placement of my foot on the road. It matters.

It matters what road we choose to tread on. It matters that we can connect with our bodies that have been so wonderfully made. It matters that we can connect with the world around us, and the road under us.

Well if you have read a bit of this blog you may be seeing where I'm gonna go with this now.... I'm really believing that God made us wonderful, and He made our feet to do a job that they are well equipped to do. We were not made broken. In the awesome book "Born to run, a hidden tribe, super athletes, and the greatest race the world will never see" the author Christopher McDougall writes about our consumerism (or a company's greed) as part of the driving force for the creation of bigger and better shoes. He also writes about how many people felt that our evolution has gone well with the exception of our feet, which need help, according to some specialists. He then goes on to provide support and studies which prove these people wrong. To me this supports the case that God has created us perfectly. (not that we are perfect in our choices, but that is another story altogether!) God did not leave out our cushioning, He is our soft cozy place to go when we need comfort. This leads me to another thought... maybe we were meant to FEEL the road, EXPERIENCE our journey, LIVE our lives.

This is a lesson I think I will experience all week as I remember the differences of running barefoot with fitted protective covering, one that let's me feel the road and still protects me from serious injury; and one that fits loosely over me to dull the feel of the road altogether, and does not really protect me.

Above is a picture of the park where we ran. This is the trees by the zoo as we were walking back to our car after the race, what really caught my eye was the incredible colors in the trees.

Have a fantastic week!

Nicole